In this series of short posts, I am going to break down Red pill viewpoints into digestible snippets. You’ll want to check these out if you are a red pill beginner.
Red Pill v. Blue Pill Male Fitness & Attractiveness:
Blue Pill: Some girls love skinny guys, others are into big muscular guys. It just depends on taste.
Red Pill: All girls prefer muscular men. This is obvious to any man who has lived life as both a skinny man and a buff man.
I’m a skinny guy naturally. I ran cross country and track in high school and college, which helped me become athletic with muscular definition. I could run 12 miles like it was nothing. But the manosphere has helped me realize my own personal “hamster” rationalization in thinking that girls prefer my ‘skinny man six pack’ to a guy who is big, bulky, and dominant. A year ago my weight hovered around 160 lbs after I got done traveling for 2 years. I’m 6 feet fucking 2 inches tall. So 160 is emaciated looking. By lifting and eating a shit ton over the past year, I’ve upped that to 180. I have to admit though, that 180 is not 100% muscle. I’m shooting for somewhere between 190-200 this year. I’ll be interested to see if there is a noticeable change in the way women, and people in general, perceive me and act toward me as I progress. Honestly, I can’t tell a HUGE difference between these two selfies, but here is me at 165:
And then at 175:
I’m still holding out for those 185, 195 gains.
If you are holding on to your view that, “yea, but skinny guys can still get girls,’ I will grant you this is conceivable. It is possible. But is it OPTIMAL? For me, the nail in the coffin is this: how many girls enjoy being heavier than their boyfriend? The answer is none. Zero. And if a girl is happy to be heavier than you, you sir have a rough road ahead of you if you want to have a fuckable girlfriend/wife.
If you are a skinny guy and you ask a female friend if they prefer big guys or skinny guys, it is likely that they will say ‘ohh I don’t know, it depends.’ They are saying that because girls will LIE to you (shocking, I know) to protect your self-esteem. Think about if a girl asks another girl, “How do I look in this dress?” In her head a smart girl thinks, “She is a fat cow, and I pity her boyfriend.” What comes out of her mouth though? “I think that color goes great on you. Really complements your skin.” It’s bullshit rationalization. Period.
Don’t listen to girls for advice. Especially for anything having to do with attraction.
If you are like me, you won’t gain weight unless you really force yourself to down food all of the time, but, it is worth it. Stop running, lift some heavy weights (deadlift! GRUNT), and just start shoveling lots of food into your mouth post workout. It’s not that fucking hard. Make it a habit, not something you do 1-2x a week. Good luck.
PS: Tomorrow’s Post: Red Pill Session #2: Female Fitness and Attractiveness